selenay: (The Untamed: Wen Qing)
Happy New Year! Welcome to 2023!

I have a bit of a tradition of trying to start out the new year well by doing a bit of all the good things that I want to do through the year. Make 1 January a representation of what I'm bringing to the year.

(I'm not superstitious, but last year I spent 1 January being very ill with flu, so make of that what you will.)

Therefore today I have:

- Had a bit of a lie in
- Eaten a good, yummy breakfast
- Gone for a nice walk
- Made the good coffee and taken the time to enjoy it
- Read a couple of chapters of a good book while listening to music
- Read a chapter of a good fic
- Written words
- Played board games
- Posted fic

I'm currently cooking some tasty food for supper. I plan to get a bit of stitching in and watch some good telly this evening. I think that covers everything!

I don't do new year resolutions, because I don't like setting myself up for self-loathing when I inevitably fail to keep them up. However, [personal profile] celli has been doing a daily writing challenge through 2022 and it's inspired me. The biggest frustration I had last year was not having the spoons to write. I always feel like I should write at least X amount when I sit down to write, when really the important part is the habit and the way that writing regularly--even if it's just a very few words--has always been the best way to keep my creative process flowing.

So this year, I intend to attempt to write something every day. Minimum is 5 words. I thought about 50 words, but realised that if I set the bar really incredibly very low then even if all I did was open a WIP and add a a tiny number of words, it would count and I'd feel good about adding a line to my spreadsheet.

(Yes, there's a spreadsheet. I'm a data nerd. You think there wouldn't be a spreadsheet?)

I'm going to try to keep myself accountable on twitter/fediverse. If I forget to post the daily then I'll try to remember to post the monthly tally of days/words.

Any new words count. If I deleted 500 words and wrote 20 new words? That's 20 words in the spreadsheet, not -480. The important part is getting some words out and keeping my brain nibbling at the ideas and producing new ones. Regular writing leads to creative thoughts.

In the spirit of that, today's tally was 304 words. Woo hoo!
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I can’t believe my last real update was in June. What happened?

Well, a lot. VidUKon was brilliant fun. In August I went to Dublin for Worldcon, which was also excellent fun.

And then in September I did the scary thing and talked to a mortgage broker, who told me the banks would definitely like me to have some money. And thus, in October I put in an offer on a house that was accepted! We exchanged contracts in early December and the sale completes on January 6th. The movers are booked for January 20th.

That little paragraph sounds so easy, but as anyone who has bought a house will know, it’s not been quite that easy (although I’m told I’ve had a really easy time of it so far). There were so many forms to fill in, papers to find, people to talk to, and procedures to follow. I’ve got a few more weeks of stuff to do as I move, sort out utilities and so forth, and generally set up a home.

But I’m really happy that it’s happening and I’m going to have a home of my own. It’s a three-bedroom end of terrace house, on the estate I grew up on only a couple of minutes walk from my parents’ house. So it has the advantage of me knowing the area really well and being familiar with both the good and bad points to it. I’ll be within easy walking distance of my doctor, library, shops, dentist, vet, several bus lines, and a couple of nice coffee shops. I’m in between two train lines going into London. I’ll be enjoying the kind of village life I’m used to and (hopefully) continuing to live a car-free life.

Living so close to my parents also has its pluses and minuses. Mum and I are setting up firm rules and boundaries for all of us, to make sure the pluses outweigh the minuses ;-)

The process has been scary at times and I’ve had to talk myself down from a few panics, but I keep reminding myself that it’s all going to be worth it in the end. My own home, not rented from anyone, where I can be secure and stable and make my own choices about everything. And not have to think about moving for a long time :D

So, 2019 has been rather busy and filled with changes, but hopefully 2020 is going to be focused on more on settling in and putting down real roots at last.

You never know, I might write more than three fanfics next year!
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I don't do resolutions, because I'm crap at keeping them, but I do try to do vague intentions at the beginning of the year. If you've read my last post, you'll know there's a lot coming at me in 2018 so I'm not going to get ambitious or set goals. In fact, a lot of my intentions this year are focused around maintaining my sanity during the process of moving to a different country and setting up my new life!

So this year, I intended to:

- Read some books. Maybe 75, may be 100, maybe only 25.
- Watch the TV and movies that make me happy, ditch the media that doesn't make me happy.
- Write as the mood takes me. No planning, no goals. If I only write two short fics this year, that's fine. If I nosedive into writing a silly epic novel or a Sara/Lena bodyguard AU fic, that's great.
- Take part in femslashex and Yuletide if I'm in the right mental space for it, but not feel guilty if I can't.
- Sleep in and take breaks when I need them, rather than pushing myself to breaking point.
- Learn new programming skills.
- Take the chance to meet new people and go to new places whenever it arises.
- Do the things that make me happier.

I think those feel achievable.
selenay: (ace 2 (with gun))
Happy New Year! Hope 2013 treats you all well.

I don't normally do the resolutions thing, but I'm trying to think about intentions for 2013. To that end, I've got a couple of definable, goal-oriented things and some more general things.

Goals:

1) No steroids, oral or ophthalmic, in 2013.
2) Make it past midnight at the dead dog party at Redemption.
3) Read a non-fiction book.

Intentions:

1) Read. Books, comics, fanfic it doesn't matter. Just read. Last year I set myself a goal for books and then felt a lot of pressure on myself when I dropped behind my goal. So this year, read as much as I want, whatever I want.
2) Write things that make me happy.
3) Knit things for Best Friend in America's baby (due early March).
4) Spend time with friends.
5) See movies at the cinema.
6) Do good things at work but don't let it take over my life.

There. I think those look doable.
selenay: (books 1)
Well, not quite. I'll save you from the enourmous review list of books. I will give you The List for 2011 behind a cut-tag:

Books in 2011 )

Yup, 84 books this year and that is five more than last year. None of them have been complete duds, although there have been a couple of 'meh' reads.

I've discovered the joy of Connie Willis (definitely my favourite author of the year) and been thrilled by Mistborn. I've loved the C J Sansom books (who wouldn't love mysteries set in Henry VIII's reign) and my iPad has given me access to some amazing comis. I got so caught up in The Magicians and Mrs. Quent that I had to order pizza instead of cooking one night so that I could finish it. Diana Wynne Jones kept me reading late into the night and a group read finally got me through Northanger Abbey.

I'm a bit divided about my favourite books of 2011, but here are the main candidates:

Daughter of Time - Joshephine Tey
Mistborn: The Hero of Ages - Brandon Sanderson
Soulless - Gail Carriger
Doomsday Book - Connie Willis (and her other books, except that would be half the list)
The Name of the Wind - Patrick Rothfuss
Unnatural Issue - Mercedes Lackey
Dissolution - C J Sansom
Mastiff - Tamora Pierce
Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen
Persuasion - Jane Austen
The Uncommon Reader - Alan Bennett
Astonishing X-Men Vol 3. Issues 1-6 - Joss Whedon and John Cassady

The worst books of 2011 is easier, although they weren't dreadful, just not that brilliant:

Outlander - Diana Gabaldon
Septimus Heap Book One: Magyk - Angie Sage
Asimov's Science Fiction magazine (September 2011)
Virals - Kathy Reichs

My thread for the 75 books for 2012 on LibraryThing is here so follow along for next years books if you're interested!
selenay: (me)
Everyone's doing it, so I'll join the bandwagon.

2011 basically sucked for me. I won't lie. Any year that has an emergency hospital admission in the first month and the diagnosis of a severe chronic illness is never going to go well. I've spent most of the year on steroids and now take a ton of pills and injections to keep things at bay.

While the UC diagnosis did at least finally give me access to lots of help and doctors who are eager (and wonderful) carers for me, it did also make my life a bit more complicated and I ended up cancelling most of the trips and fun plans for the year due to flare-ups. When you add in all the things that I couldn't do due to my back, you end up with a year that did not have many trips or fun days out and consisted of a lot of hospital trips, tests, needles and bad news.

Thankfully the last six weeks has been better: I'm in remission (I hope, we need to discuss the recent stomach cramps in the new year) and my back has eased off a lot since late November.

I've written a bit during December, for the first time in months, and my Christmas has been so much better than last Christmas.

All of this gives me hope that 2012 is going to be a lot better than 2011. So here's to the end of a sucky year and the start of what will hopefully be a fantastic year!

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