selenay: (hate mornings)
Yesterday I worked a half day so that I'd be free to do some nephew wrangling/worship in the afternoon and it was great.

(Not the work, the nephew.)

Sprog has grown so much since I saw him at the beginning of August! And I can see how much he's changing!

It's particularly obvious in his grip and coordination. Four weeks ago, he'd hold onto something if you put, say, your finger in his hand but it wasn't really a strong grip. Now he reaches for things (fingers, his favourite toy, crinkle books) and he's got a firm grip on them. And he's starting to focus on things more and respond to tummy tickles and facial expressions.

He was having a good day yesterday, despite the long drive, so there were a lot of smiles and giggles. I held him and played with him while everyone else had a late lunch (my parents and sis had a late start from sis's place, so it was 3pm before they got here) and then sis and I took him out for a walk in his pram to get a short final nap for the day in. He was a bit tired and fussy after that, because it was getting late in his day, but I was able to soothe him and keep him occupied until bathtime.

I'm pretty proud of myself for being able to do that. Who knew I could look after babies without dropping or upsetting them?

It's wonderful watching my sister with him. She's such a good mother? And it looks so natural when she's doing it? I'm blown away by this every time I see them.

I was absolutely shattered by the time I got home (they fed me before I left, thankfully) and ended up falling asleep on my sofa by 9.30pm. Oops. Made a midnight transfer to my bed and then woke up ridiculously early because my body is weird.

Apparently babies are exhausting for me. Heh. Isn't going to stop me cramming in as much nephew time as possible this week! I've been working this morning, but in a few minutes I'm turning on the out of office until Monday :D It's possible that I'll spend most of the weekend recovering from this experience, but I don't care. Hopefully I'll be slightly more awake in the evenings so I can catch an episode or two of The Untamed, now I'm getting so close to the end.

But I'm also determined to enjoy Sprog as much as possible. Who knows what the winter will be like and how much longer I'll be able to socialise with him? I don't want to miss out on more than I have to. I've got no desire to have my own child, but I'm thoroughly enjoying being Aunty and I want to make sure he knows me and trusts me.
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The final couple of days of my holiday were good, except for the horrible heat. I'm not built for heat. It gives me migraines.

I did a rock choir workshop via Zoom on Saturday, which was a new thing for me and I really enjoyed it. The style of teaching and singing is quite different from what I do with my community choir, but I enjoyed the change from my usual stuff. And we were doing Both Sides Now, which is a fantastic song (as if anything by Joanie Mitchell isn't) and one that the community choir would probably never touch so it was a great opportunity.

(It also gave me a potential fic title for my current fic. Maybe, for once, titles won't be The Worst(TM)?)

Now I'm back at work and nothing blew up while I was gone, but our workload for August is ridiculous and I'm going to be putting my foot down about adding any more work to our queue that's due this month. We literally can't. And the situation is the same for another team I work with. The business has woken up after covid and wants everything right now, but we're understaffed and can't hire so we can't do everything they want. August is going to be stressful.

I've booked some time off in the first week of September anyway. Two half days and two full days. Adding in the bank holiday, that week I'll only actually work on two mornings, just to try to keep things ticking over.

My sister is having some work done on her house - repairs and decorating they'd planned to do before the baby came but then lockdown happened and they couldn't have anyone in to do it. Now they want to get it done before the baby gets bigger, because some of the work is in the room that will be his nursery when he stops sleeping in their room and some of the other work is repairing things that tiny fingers might get hurt on when he starts to get mobile. So my sister and nephew are coming out to stay with my parents that week, and they'll be just round the corner so of course I need to go and hang out with them.

And also kidnap my nephew a bit.

My sister is going to be doing a bit of work during her maternity leave, starting in September, so she really needs some quiet time during that week to get started on it. Hence, nephew wrangling! My mum may also be allowed to kidnap her grandson when I'm not around. I'm so excited about getting Sprog time. He'll be three months old on Wednesday and he's the most gorgeous baby ever. I adore him to pieces. He's often grumpy for various reasons (poor thing has had a tough start to his life), but that only makes his smiles more precious.

He has such a range of expressions.

And when he's about to cry, his lower lip sticks out in the most adorable pout. We're all torn (even his parents) between snapping a photo of it and scooping him up to figure out how to stop him crying. So far, scooping mostly wins.

I didn't expect to adore this child so much, but apparently I've turned into that doting aunt who will defend her nephew to the death. I couldn't be happier about this situation.
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On the one hand, I had to get up for an ops shift at 8am.

On the other hand, I wasn't at work so who cares about how early I had to get up?

After the ops shift, I did a few chores and then made the mistake of sitting down for a while and acquiring a cat on my lap. If I hadn't had other plans, I might have just curled up for a nap there. But...

My sister and her husband came out to visit us for the day with my tiny new nephew! Sprog is eleven weeks old and this is only the second time I've been able to see him (argh, global pandemic). He's adorable and I love him. Even though he was a bit fractious because he didn't sleep well overnight due to the heat. I got plenty of cuddles and lots of time playing fingers and toes with him. He's pretty good about settling down with me, which is flattering.

Unfortunately, Dad has so far had two cuddles...and Sprog has screamed both times. I think Dad is starting to feel rejected. Oops.

Sprog is quite small (just below 25th percentile for height and weight), but we're all fine with that. He's feeding well now after a rough start, but it looks like part of the reason he's often uncomfortable is that he's got reflux as well as wind. So they're going to be looking for some ideas to help him with that, because it's clearly quite painful at times for him.

But we had a lovely day and I was completely worn out at the end, but I can't wait to see Sprog again. Best nephew ever.

And then I went home and watched the first three episodes of The Untamed with [twitter.com profile] hockeybosh. She's been here before, so has been helpfully explaining things that I was confused about (everyone has so many names!) and cackling at my reactions. Probably because she knows all the things I'm wrong about *g*

I'm really enjoying it! It's so pretty! I should do a proper reaction post for the first three episodes, but I can report that I already have characters I love which is a good sign. And also, WWX is adorable and therefore it's going to be very difficult to watch anything bad happen to him.

I'd only planned to watch two episodes last night, but then I said the fatal words. "Is there any reason we can't watch the next one?"

Which was such a bad idea with Guardian but HB should be able to steer us away from any really badly timed cliffhangers *g*

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